7 Ways To Become A Love Magnet

Whether you’re single or in a relationship, most of us want more love. For anyone who feels that love is running dry or that there is not enough to go around, know that love is abundant and available. The secret is you have to learn how to give it in order to get it. And not just give it to one person, but to embrace love as a way of being and carry it with you wherever you go.

This is similar to taking a seed, planting it into the soil, watering and caring for it, being patient as it grows, and then watching it bloom. It probably won’t happen overnight, but there are ways to “plant the seed” and become a love magnet. These include:

1. Notice what life is reflecting back. The world is your mirror and will reflect to you exactly what you give. This can be incredibly frustrating if you’re feeling needy, desperate, or depressed about your love life or an unfulfilling relationship. This state of mind actually repels love and does exactly the opposite, leaving you with more of the same. Instead of allowing this to continue, stop and notice the reflection. If you don’t like what you see, know that it’s time to make a change.
2. Realize you have the power. Most people find that they cannot find love in another person until they find love in themselves. This can be difficult if you weren’t loved enough as a child or haven’t been in a relationship in awhile (or ever). So, the next step to becoming a love magnet is to realize you have the power. You have this power simply by being alive—so use it!
3. Be true to yourself. If you are kind and loving to others, but extremely hard on yourself, this sends a mixed messaged to the Universe. And one that says you’re not worthy of love. Notice what you say to yourself on a daily basis and how you treat yourself when you are alone. Start giving yourself the love you want and you will become a love magnet.
4. Let go of your expectations. Love often happens when you least expect it. The wonderful part is that once you start living as if you have the love you want, you can relax and know it will be fulfilled. That means you can focus more on enjoying life. Let the Universe worry about when and where and how it will happen.
5. Stop reliving the past or projecting into the future. In the same respect, let go of the past and of your perceptions of the future. These thoughts can weigh you down and tamper with your emotions—keeping love at bay.
6. Know what you want. Taking a class, engaging in talk therapy, or reading books about love and relationship can help you heal and prepare for a healthy partnership. Once you know what you want, it becomes easier to draw in that love. You’ll be able to recognize it immediately, and also know when to move on.
7. Remember who you are. When you want to attract love, remind yourself of your spiritual nature. Your Spiritual Centre connects you to all of life on the planet, including all of the love, joy, and abundance. When you’re centered in this place there is no worry, guilt, depression, fear or shame. Instead you have access to a greater force and field that contains your inner essence. Things like yoga, meditation, and prayer are reminders of the truth.